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Writer's pictureFred Beljaars

The Master Formula for Living: Choose. Be. Commit.

What if I told you that everything you think limits you—doesn’t? The life you're living is not constrained by circumstances, but by the choices you’ve been making and the beliefs you hold about yourself. Freedom isn’t out there, it’s right here. The Master Formula: Choose. Be. Commit. is about reclaiming that freedom.


Step 1: Choose

Most people go through life without ever making a real choice. They react, adapt, and survive, but they don’t choose. Choosing means cutting away all other possibilities and saying, “This is it. This is what I want.”

Here’s the truth: Your life is nothing more than a reflection of the choices you’ve made.

Look at your life right now—where you live, who you surround yourself with, how you spend your time. All of that is based on choices. Some conscious, most unconscious. But nothing changes until you make the conscious decision to change it. Choice is the foundation of freedom. Without it, you’re trapped in the illusion that life is happening to you. Choose how you want to live, not based on who you’ve been, but on who you’re ready to become.


Step 2: Be

After you choose, you must be. Be the person who lives that choice right now. Most people think they'll be happy, successful, or free once they’ve achieved their goals. But this is backwards. If you want transformation, you don’t wait to be the person who has it; you become that person now.

Here’s the shift: You don’t achieve to become, you become to achieve.

This is about embodying the identity of the person who already lives in the reality you’ve chosen. It’s not enough to want something—you have to be the version of yourself who creates it. That version of you exists right now. The only difference is how you show up in the world, how you think, how you act.


Step 3: Commit

The third and final step is commitment. This is where most people fall short. They make a choice, they talk about it, they might even start to embody it, but when it gets uncomfortable—when it gets real—they back down. They waver. They tell themselves they’ll try again next time, when conditions are "better."

Commitment means no turning back. There’s no Plan B. There’s no “I’ll see if this works.” The moment you choose and the moment you embody who you need to be, you commit fully to the outcome.

Commitment isn’t just a promise you make to yourself—it’s a declaration of who you are. It’s putting everything on the line, moving forward with conviction, and never letting doubt get in the way of your vision.



Create a new story of your life.

The Power of Integration:

Most people live divided lives—one foot in, one foot out. They want to live fully, but they hesitate. That’s why Choose. Be. Commit. is so powerful. It integrates thought, action, and belief into one single force that drives your life forward.


Choosing puts you in control.

Being aligns you with that choice.

Committing ensures that you follow through no matter what.


This isn’t just a formula—it’s a way of life. What I’ve shared here is only the beginning. If you’re ready to break through every barrier you’ve built, if you’re ready to live as though you were truly free, then it’s time to Choose. Be. Commit.


Your life will only be as extraordinary as the choices you’re willing to make today.


If you’re serious about excelling in life, the next step is simple: Choose. Be. Commit to working with me. Let’s unlock your highest potential together.


Fred Beljaars


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